When teenage sons and daughters summon the nerve to come out to their parents, the usual first reactions include anger, denial - and a profound sense of loss.
The best thing they can do is to love them, understand them and give them the dignity to lead their own life.
When the shock wears off, parents must turn pro-active, supporting their children, and realizing they're the priority.
It's important to be strong for your kids because it's taking every drop of courage they have to reveal their sexual orientation.
The fatal shooting Feb. 12 of 15-year-old Lawrence King illustrates the need for parents to make sure their children, once they come out, are safe from bullying.
Parents need to realize there's inherent danger for kids who are coming out.
Parents' goals for their children should be the same, gay or straight - to help them achieve a happy and healthy life.
It makes such a difference when a family stands along with the child.
That's a successful parent.
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